It's about point of view I guess. Life has it ways and means to touch everyone's heart in its own strange way. One's loss could be one's boon. Or you can say someone's style of living can be other's fantasy and on the other hand it can be an adventure for the earlier.
We all like to peep into other's life. It does no good us as well as to anyone else. We just keep comparing to our relatives, friends, neighbours etc etc.. It brings no good to us but it does bring the negativity in life. Instead of being thankful for all what we have and all what we can achieve, our focus goes to what we don't possess.
I remember being told by mother when I was small.
"ki beta jab bhi zindagi jeeni ho to apne se neeche walon ko dekho ki woh kaise guzara karte hain Aur hamesha us parmatma ka shukrana karo...
Aur jab bhi zindagi mein aage badna to hamesha apne se upar dekho ki un logon ne kitni mehnat aur tyaag kiye hain us safalta ko paane ke liye, aur usi tarah se apni manzil ko paane ke liye mehnat karo..."
One should always focus on getting better in life.. n this is a continuous process. Life is about living it to the fullest. There is one truth about it and that is Death. Jo aaya hai woh jaega bhi.. nothing is constant, nothing is permanent..
Who has seen life after death ?
Who knows what happens to us after we die?
There are so many who's to which we don't have answers. We are here to live, explore, experience this beautiful journey called life. The biggest truth is that we are alive and we are breathing. We are making constant efforts to improve the quality of life by adding value to it. These values range from moral to medical going to spiritual levels. It keeps changing with time, age and interest of every human being.
It's a journey with a constant urge to know and learn more and practice it. Life is getting busier day by day. Technology has made us dependent on it.. the easier the access we are getting to global reach, more we are getting away from the personal reach. We have started living on gadgets than relying on our set of people around us. It's a different era alltogether, and I remember some lyrics of a very popular song : Main tere saamne tu mere saamne, tujhko dekhun ki pyaar karun..
There should a slight change in this like: Main tere saamne tu mere saamne, tujhko bolun ki message karun.. Look around, life is beautiful.. Go out, the grass is still greener, Go talk to people, they are as lonely as you.. all it takes is the effort to say Hi..
And rest follows..
