Saturday, 19 September 2020

The power of Yes!

Cape Town's uneducated surgeon Mr. Hamilton, who was awarded the honorary degree of Master of Medicine who could neither read nor write let's see how this is possible.

Cape Town Medical University has a leading position in the Medical World.

The world's first bypass operation took place at the same University.

Master of Medicine awarded the honorary degree of who has never seen the face of school in his life.

Who could read an English word and could not write?

But one morning in 2003, world-renowned surgeon Professor David Dent announced in the university auditorium:  Today we are awarding an honorary degree in medicine to the man who produced the most surgeons in the world. Who is an extraordinary teacher, and an amazing surgeon, and who studied medical science and surprised the human mind.

 With this, the announcement, the professor took the name Hamilton and the entire auditorium stood and greeted the cross.

 It was the biggest reception in the history of this university.

 

Hamilton was born in Sanitani, a remote village in Cape Town. His parents were shepherds, he wore goatskin, and he walked in the mountains barefoot all day, as a child, his father fell ill, so he left the sheep and goats and moved to Cape Town. Construction was underway at the University of Cape Town in those days.

He joined the university as a laborer. He would send home as much money as he could get after a hard day's work and he used to sleep in the open ground by chewing gram himself.

He worked as a laborer for many years. The construction the process ended and he got the job of mowing the tennis court, he arrives at the tennis court every day and starts mowing the lawn.  

He did this for three years ...

Then came a strange turn in his life

And

He reached a point in medical science where no one else has ever been.

It was a mild, warm morning. "Professor Robert Joyce, researching giraffes wanted to see:

 

When a giraffe bends its neck to drink water, why doesn't it have a seizure?

They laid a giraffe on the operating table, knocked him unconscious, but as soon as the operation started, the giraffe shook its head. So, they needed a strong man to keep the giraffe's neck tight during the operation.

 

The professor came out of the theatre, 'Hamilton' was mowing the lawn in front, the professor saw that he was a healthy young man of strong stature. They beckoned him and ordered him to grab the giraffe's neck. Hamilton grabbed his neck. The operation lasted eight hours. During this time, the doctor continued to take tea and coffee breaks, however, Hamilton stood holding the giraffe's neck. When the operation was over, he quietly went out and started mowing the lawn.

 

The next day the professor called him again, he came and grabbed the giraffe's neck and stood up, after which it became his routine.  He worked double for many months, neither he demanded some additional compensation for this duty and nor did he complain. Professor Robert Joyce was impressed by his perseverance and sincerity and Hamilton is promoted from mowing the tennis court to the lab assistant. He now came to the university, went to the operating theatre, and helped the surgeons. This process continued for years.

In 1958 came another turning point in his life. This year Dr. Bernard came to the university and started heart transplant operations.

 

Hamilton became his assistant, during these operations, he went from assistant to additional surgeon. Now the doctors operate and after the operation, he was given the task of stitching. He used to do excellent stitches. His fingers were clean and fast. He stitched fifty people in one day. While working in the operating theatre, he began to understand the human body more than surgeons. So, the senior doctors gave him the responsibility of teaching junior doctors.

He now began teaching surgery techniques to junior doctors. He gradually became the most important figure in the university. He was unfamiliar with the terms of medical science. But he was the best surgeon in the world.

 

The third turning point in his life came in 1970 when research on the liver began this year and he identified one such liver artery during surgery, which made liver transplantation easier.

 

His remarks astonished the great minds of medical science.

 

Today, when a person has a liver operation in some corner of the world and the patient opens his eyes and sees the light the reward for this the successful operation goes directly to Hamilton.

Hamilton achieved this position with sincerity and perseverance. He was associated with the University of Cape Town for 50 years, in those 50 years he never took a vacation.

He would leave home at three o'clock at night, walk 14 miles to the university, and he would enter the theatre at exactly six o'clock. People used to fix their watches with their time. He received an honor that no one in medical science has ever received.

 

He was the first illiterate teacher of medical history.

He was the first illiterate surgeon to train 30,000 surgeons in his lifetime. He died in 2005 and was buried at the university and it was then made compulsory for surgeons to pass out from the university after obtaining that degree go to his grave, take a picture and then get into practical life ......

 "You know how he got this position."

 

"Only one yes."

 

The day he was called to the operating theatre to grab the giraffe's neck if he had refused that day, if he had said that day, I am a Grounds Maintenance Worker, my job is not to hold the giraffe's neck

 It was a yes and an extra eight hours of hard work that opened the door to success for him and him became a surgeon.

 Most of us have been looking for a job in all our lives. While we must find work.

 Every job in the world has one criterion and job is available only to those who meet the criteria while if you wanted to do work, you could start any work in the world in a few minutes and no power in the world would be able to stop you.

 

Hamilton had found the secret, he gave importance to work rather than a job. Thus, it changed the history of medical science.

Imagine if he applied for a surgeon's job could he have become a surgeon? Never, but he put the hoe down and hold the giraffe's neck and became a surgeon.

There are unemployed people fail because they just look for a job, not for work. The day you started working like Hamilton you will win the Nobel Prize and will become great and successful human beings.

 

Saturday, 20 June 2020

Goodbye..





Goodbye… 

He: Are you leaving me?

Her: We’re all leaving one day.

He: Why are you leaving?

Her: It's like a book I am reading a book,  It's a book that I deeply love. But I'm reading it slow now. So the words already far apart..  
And the spaces between the words are almost infinite… I can still feel you and the words of our story But it's in this endless space between the words that I'm finding myself now.
It's a place that's not off a physical world. It's everything else is that I didn't even know existed. I love you so much…
But this is where I am now, and this is who I am now.  And I need you to let me go as much as I want to, I can't live in your book anymore. 

He:  Where are you going?

Her:  It would be hard to explain But if you ever get there, come find me..
And then nothing would ever pull us apart.

He:  I've never loved anyone the way I love you.

Her: Me Too! Now we know how...




P.S.: These are excerpts that I have written from the climax of the Movie "Her". It touched my heart, so I thought of sharing it with my readers. 

Friday, 19 June 2020

Let's repair ourselves first!




Let's repair ourselves first!
Nepotism, favoritism... the media got something new to talk about other than COVID. They are jumping with joy as they have a new topic to sway us and we are just following the trend. Is this happening for the first time, the answer is NO!
But it takes us such painful and alarming acts to realize...
Having empathy, fair justice, showing humanity, etc.. these are the attributes that need to be followed in our daily lifestyle and not just for a few days or to portray on social media only. There is a lot of negativity around us, we need to fix ourselves before we try to fix others. Look within yourself, love yourself, respect your life and body and treat it like a temple and not as a junkyard. Don't be a prey to all the junk to be fed on by the media around you.
INHALE POSITIVITY AND EXHALE GRATITUDE!
You cannot give positivity unless you have it within you.. charge yourself with good thoughts: exercise, meditate, read good books, eat satvik food, and balance your chakras. You can't preach unless you practice. So let's repair ourselves before we try to fix others. Period.

Tuesday, 3 March 2020

Tanhayi



Meri saathi hai yeh tanhai.
Cherry - Tanhayi blog
Isme khalal na daal..


Apni maaujoodagi ka ehsaas dila ke,

Ise galat fehmi mein na daal..

Pyaar hai ise apne akelepan ke ehsaas ka,

Uske saath ka..

Ise fikra ka dikhava kar ke..

Kisi jhoothe ehsaas mein na daal...



Dhokha nahi deti yeh mujhe..

Ise maloom hai ki hota kya hai yeh dard..

Har mehfil ki barbaad raunak ke baad,

Har Khushi ke jhoote dilaase ke baad,

Aati hai woh ghadi, jab khulti hai Aankhen,

Toota hai bharosa, fir se tere chale jaane ke baad..



Meri saathi hai yeh tanhai.
Isme khalal na daal!


Wednesday, 19 July 2017

"Ek Ajnabi"

Yunhi chal rahi zindagi,
Roz marrah ke haal mein..

Aate jaate rukti thi main,
Is help desk ke counter pe..

Dekha tha kayi baar usko,
Apne kaam  mein masroof..
Chehron mein se ek chehra,
Anjana sa.. ajnabi sa..

Mila ek din jab woh ajnabi,
Jo kuch apna sa lagne laga...

Aate jaate hone lagi baatein, mulakatein, sharatein,
Woh chand pal jo hum bitate ek saath mere jaane se pehle..

Ek din hui kuch khul ke baat,
Baithe the chai peene jab shyam ko hum saath..

Jab bayaan ki usne apni choti si ik daastan,
Yaad aagya mujhe apna bhi ek falsafa..

Khoon ke rishton se bar kar ban jata hai dard ka rishta,
Bina chooye dil ko chhoo jaate hain kuch ehsaas..

Mila ek din jab woh ajnabi,
Jo kuch apna sa lagne laga...!

Saturday, 26 November 2016

Life bhi na..


It's about point of view I guess. Life has it ways and means to touch everyone's heart in its own strange way. One's loss could be one's boon. Or you can say someone's style of living can be other's fantasy and on the other hand it can be an adventure for the earlier.

We all like to peep into other's life. It does no good us as well as to anyone else. We just keep comparing to our relatives, friends, neighbours etc etc.. It brings no good to us but it does bring the negativity in life. Instead of being thankful for all what we have and all what we can achieve, our focus goes to what we don't possess. 

I remember being told by mother when I was small.
  "ki beta jab bhi zindagi jeeni ho to apne se neeche walon ko dekho ki woh kaise guzara karte hain Aur hamesha us parmatma ka shukrana karo... 
Aur jab bhi zindagi mein aage badna to hamesha apne se upar dekho ki un logon ne kitni mehnat aur tyaag kiye hain us safalta ko paane ke liye, aur usi tarah se apni manzil ko paane ke liye mehnat karo..."

One should always focus on getting better in life.. n this is a continuous process. Life is about living it to the fullest. There is one truth about it and that is Death. Jo aaya hai woh jaega bhi.. nothing is constant, nothing is  permanent..
Who has seen life after death ?
Who knows what happens to us after we die?
There are so many who's to which we don't have answers. We are here to live, explore, experience this beautiful journey called life. The biggest truth is that we are alive and we are breathing. We are making constant efforts to improve the quality of life by adding value to it. These values range from moral to medical going to spiritual levels. It keeps changing with time, age and interest of every human being.

It's a journey with a constant urge to know and learn more and practice it. Life is getting busier day by day. Technology has made us dependent on it.. the easier the access we are getting to global reach, more we are getting away from the personal reach. We have started living on gadgets than relying on our set of people around us. It's a different era alltogether, and I remember some lyrics of a very popular song : Main tere saamne tu mere saamne, tujhko dekhun ki pyaar karun..
There should a slight change in this like: Main tere saamne tu mere saamne, tujhko bolun ki message karun.. Look around, life is beautiful.. Go out, the grass is still greener, Go talk to people, they are as lonely as you.. all it takes is the effort to say Hi..

And rest follows..

Monday, 3 October 2016

Happiness: is just a state of mind!

Your happiness lies only and only in your hand.. don't give your remote control to someone else. Don't let others take control to how you feel and react to something..
It is only you and your thoughts which make you happy or sad.. we can't change life and we can never change what life throws at us..
All that we have a control on... is: the way we respond to them. let no one take you for a ride on their convenience. And remember you are doing better than hundreds n thousands of people out there.. So always be THANKFUL to the almighty.
Said by: Almost all spiritual/ religious healers / wise people.. but understood by a few.