Life bhi na..

It's about point of view I guess. Life has it ways and means to touch everyone's heart in its own strange way. One's loss could be one's boon. Or you can say someone's style of living can be other's fantasy and on the other hand it can be an adventure for the earlier.

We all like to peep into other's life. It does no good us as well as to anyone else. We just keep comparing to our relatives, friends, neighbours etc etc.. It brings no good to us but it does bring the negativity in life. Instead of being thankful for all what we have and all what we can achieve, our focus goes to what we don't possess. 

I remember being told by mother when I was small.
  "ki beta jab bhi zindagi jeeni ho to apne se neeche walon ko dekho ki woh kaise guzara karte hain Aur hamesha us parmatma ka shukrana karo... 
Aur jab bhi zindagi mein aage badna to hamesha apne se upar dekho ki un logon ne kitni mehnat aur tyaag kiye hain us safalta ko paane ke liye, aur usi tarah se apni manzil ko paane ke liye mehnat karo..."

One should always focus on getting better in life.. n this is a continuous process. Life is about living it to the fullest. There is one truth about it and that is Death. Jo aaya hai woh jaega bhi.. nothing is constant, nothing is  permanent..
Who has seen life after death ?
Who knows what happens to us after we die?
There are so many who's to which we don't have answers. We are here to live, explore, experience this beautiful journey called life. The biggest truth is that we are alive and we are breathing. We are making constant efforts to improve the quality of life by adding value to it. These values range from moral to medical going to spiritual levels. It keeps changing with time, age and interest of every human being.

It's a journey with a constant urge to know and learn more and practice it. Life is getting busier day by day. Technology has made us dependent on it.. the easier the access we are getting to global reach, more we are getting away from the personal reach. We have started living on gadgets than relying on our set of people around us. It's a different era alltogether, and I remember some lyrics of a very popular song : Main tere saamne tu mere saamne, tujhko dekhun ki pyaar karun..
There should a slight change in this like: Main tere saamne tu mere saamne, tujhko bolun ki message karun.. Look around, life is beautiful.. Go out, the grass is still greener, Go talk to people, they are as lonely as you.. all it takes is the effort to say Hi..

And rest follows..

Happiness: is just a state of mind!

Your happiness lies only and only in your hand.. don't give your remote control to someone else. Don't let others take control to how you feel and react to something..

It is only you and your thoughts which make you happy or sad.. we can't change life and we can never change what life throws at us..

All that we have a control on... is: the way we respond to them. let no one take you for a ride on their convenience. And remember you are doing better than hundreds n thousands of people out there.. So always be THANKFUL to the almighty.

Said by: Almost all spiritual/ religious healers / wise people.. but understood by a few.

#newpersepectivetowardslife  

Hichkichata sa yeh dil..

Kabhi hasta sa aur kabhi hasne se ghabhrata sa..
Kabhi darta sa aur kabhi dar ke rehne se bachta sa..

Bheedh mein bhi tanha sa..
Aur tanhai mein bhi kisi ke sang hota sa..

Hichkichata sa yeh dil...

Aye dil-e-nadaan yeh to bata de ki aisa kya tha woh wakaya..
Jo kar gya tujhe aur tere pankhon ko ghayal..

Dil ne irshad kiya...

Tha mein befikar ik kali ki tarah..
Khilna chahta tha main us gulab ki pankhudiyon sa..

Laga tha jahan khubsoorat hai yeh.. Banaya Khuda ne jo shiddat se ise..

Jaise udte hain panchi khule aasmaan mein..
Mere armaan bhi the kayi unchayion ke..

Chala jab yeh mast maula apni dhun mein sawaar,
Na tha jaise ehsaas bulbul ko sayiaad ki maujudagi ka..

Is jahan ke zulmon se woh tha bekhabar is kadar se,
Na tha ehsaas usko kisi bhi bharam ka..

Liya jakad usko aur uske armaano ko jab,
Chudane mein usne bahut kuch gavaya..

Nikal bahar aaya woh is janjaal se toh,
Magar aage se dil yeh ab darr se bhara tha..

Lag gaye kayi saal aur usne jab sab bhulaya,
Mila usko kismat se saathi pyaara ek ab..
Khuda ki is rehmat ko usne sir maathe
lagaya..

Laga ki ab khushiyon ka mela lagega..
Phir khulega yeh mausam aur phir dhoop khilegi,

Par yeh badal ka darr usko phir kyun sataye..
Kare rab se minnat aur maange yeh duyaein..

Kashti mere pyaar ki ab woh paar lagaye..
Khilen yeh phool khulkar aur kilkarian si harshayein..

Hichkichata sa yeh dil bas dua mein yun haath failaye.. !

Humari adhuri kahaani..

Filmy sa lagta hai.. Yeh falsafa meri zindagi ka,
Jab jab tujh pe aitbaar karne jee kiya aye zindagi.. tune ek baar phir dokha diya

Light, Camera n Action,
Camera rolling, start sound n dialogues..
Bilkul aise hi kuch entry li usne us din..
Exit hote hote entry kar gaya..

Woh sab chatting, sharing aur fb connect.. koshish ki ek dusre ko achhe se  janane ki..

Shayad kuch darr reh gya tha uske mann mein humare rishte ko lekar..
Kabhi kabhi bolte hue bhi chup sa reh jata tha woh..

Kehta tu bolti achhi lagti hai.. tujhe aur sun ne mann karta hai,

Mujhe andaza to tha uski khamoshi ka, uski chuppi ka..
Laga tha shayad is baar tujh pe aitbaar kar ke dekhun aye zindagi,

Tune jo milaya mujhe is ajnabi se jaane anjaane mein.. Shayad Yeh mulaquat ek hit story ban jaati..

Par jab tak twist n turn aur thrill na ho, to kahaani thodi boring si nhi ho jaati..

Tere masale ke chakkar mein aye zindagi,
Yeh dil judte judte ek baar phir chakna chur ho gya..

Yaad aate hain woh pyaare se pal jab woh saamne baithe bhi aankhein churane lagta,

kuch kehne lagta phir ruk jata.. Kabhi hasne lagta, bas ek ashuri si kasak chor jata..

Uska chup ke muskurana.. mere haathon ko apne haathon mein le kar yun har jagah tafri karne lag jana..

Aaj bhi kuch to baaki hai aisa hi lagta hai.. varna lazmi to nhi abhi bhi uska har waqt khayal mein aana!!!

Zindagi reload.. !

Dedicated to new generation:

Zindagi charging point ke daere se hat kar hoti to kya khoob hoti..
dosti emoctions mein ulajh ke naa reh jaati to kya khoob hoti..

woh shaam ko gali mein doston ka majma, cycle or bike ki race ke nazaare, mummy ka ghar late aane pe chillana, padosan ki khidki ka sheesha tootne pe jhallana,

Dekhte, mehsoos karte the in lamho ko dil ki gehraayi se kabhi..

In sab masoom palon se hum mehroom na hote to zindagi kya khoob hoti..!

Metro Diaries

Day 1 - 15th April 


It's been a while I haven't pen down anything except regular shayari's on whts-app. I often commute by metro which is the Lifeline of Delhi and Delhities. Delhi wakes up to an instant energy with dawn everyday. People start their day pretty early as some have to commute more than 100 kms a day (one side) to reach their workplace. 

Our capital is multicultural and multilingual as we have migrants from all across. I get to see so much in metro itself. At times, I come across really interesting people. There are students, teachers, homemakers, working professionals, artists, all kind of people. 

I find it so interesting to meet and talk to new people everyday. Some are warm, some are cold, some share their bits with you and some don't bother to talk. One thing I often notice is that everyone is too much plugged into their phones and gadgets that they seclude themselves from the surroundings. We have become slaves to the technology , be it games or music or whatever. 

I have met some great people while travelling and random commuting and many have gone by just like that. Often made random friends on my way home, had chit chats, went out for snacks or lunch n at times just a simple and sweet bye. Have some sweet memories to fond. There is no urge to reach back to them, or find them on social networks to remain in touch. But surely want to experience these strangers and listen to their part of story, time and time again.. everyday may be... (wink)


to be cont'd...

Some Shero Shayari..

1. Tanhayi ne fursat na di ik pal ki..

    Warna Humsfar ki talaash to is dil ko bhi thi..!



2. Yeh Tanha Barbaad dil ki arzoo..

    Tum abaad log kya khaak samjhoge..!


3. Yeh pal do pal ki nazdeekiyan nahi chahiye..

    Meri arzoo to umar bhar ka tera pyaar hai,

    Jo mujhse shuru ho

    Aur mujhi pe khatam!


4. Ek aahat, ek Awaaz, Koi Ishaara to kiya hota a-e-sanam..

   Teri chupi ne humara saara jahan badal ke rakh diya!




5. Na khel mere Jazbaaton se,
    Yeh us samundar kinare bane mitti ke ghar jaisa hai..

    Teri bekhauf masti ki lehar jo aayi,
    To dher ho kar bikhar jayega!



6. Na jaane yeh mausam ka asar hai,
    Ya is Dil ki adhuri justujoo..

    Bas fursat mili thi,
    Kuch der apni tanhaiyon se!


7. Gharonda banane ka talafuz to abhi kiya hi nahi,

    Pyaar se darr lagta hai sahab,
    Thapad se nahi!


8. Na kured haale dil ke saara gubaar nikal aayega..

   Duniya dosh degi tujhe agar yeh Tsunami na kehlayega!